Sarah Pachelli


Time to unpack some things regarding food. My biggest literal life source carries a lot of weight in so many of our lives. I find a constant chatter surrounding "I can't or I won't have these things in my diet because they're bad." There is truth to things not being ultimately healthy and I hardly touch processed food but queue that coca-cola over ice for me please for when I really want it! What I am talking about here and what we are are talking about a lot in this conversation is pleasure and experiencing it in all areas of your life. Having large quantities of almost anything is bad news but pleasure, what is life without pleasure? There will always be enough pain and heartache to go around so I say, allow the pleasure to come in so overwhelmingly your life flows with joy.

Sarah Pachelli has been practicing this philosophy for some years now and it's a way of thinking to get behind. Her overall health and life approach consists of balance, not deprivation....and as many possible trips to Sicily . From a health diagnosis that she ultimately healed through diet, which then prompted her to further her culinary education at The Natural Gourmet Institute. Through food, she has helped those suffering from health ailments and shed incredible light on a life of pleasure.  

Sarah's interest in how diet (meaning what you consume not what you don't allow yourself to have) can hugely affect your overall health came out of a diagnosis. She started experiencing psoriasis that was becoming increasingly more and more intolerable. After meeting with a Western medicine doctor, she was prescribed steroids that only temporarily worked. She asked her physician if there was any way her diet could be contributing to her skin condition. This was met with a resounding no and an explanation that this was a symptom of the skin not the gut. She didn't want to take the prescribed upped dosage of steroids so she started looking elsewhere for answers. She found the book Healing Psoriasis and it changed her life. She started implementing a candida free diet for close to three months and started to see her psoriasis clear up almost completely. She says that she knows she will never not have one or two spots on her at any given time, but she hasn't experienced a full flare up since. That initial experience helped her to better understand how diet directly impacts ones overall health. 

I find your understanding of cravings to be enlightening, how would you define/identify them?

"When I was first diagnosed with psoriasis I was craving night shades like crazy. I would open a can of tomatoes and eat straight from it, no joke. I started to recognize that my cravings were more informative. Your cravings indicate either what you could be allergic to or what your body truly needs. You have to become a detective to your own body and awareness. After I had a better understanding of what was going on internally with me, I noticed I was feeding the thing in my body that was causing my psoriasis to be so aggressive. By eliminating anything that my body naturally turned into sugar, I was able to get a handle on my psoriasis."

What is cooking to and for you?

"Cooking is something I have loved to do for a long time. When I was working as an actor or writer, I found myself going back to the kitchen in times of creative ruts for inspiration. Cooking is the ultimate creative outlet for me, from conception to consumption." 

For someone looking to cleanup their diet in a little way but make a big impact, what would you recommend?
"I would say try and stay away from refined sugars. Replace it with maple or honey in your recipes. Not only does it still taste amazing, but you're giving your body a bit of a break."

Something you have reminded me to bring more of in my life is pleasure, you are truly "its" biggest advocate. Why do you find it to be so very important?

"Pleasure heals. Pleasure is about being embodied. Meaning anything that you do, that you're truly present in that moment. When you're present there is immense joy. I focus on it so much because it reduces the stress response. We must learn to eliminate stress to heal. Stress creates inflammation in the body and if inflammation is the known cause of disease, then stress is the esoteric cause." 

Does this have a direct relationship to food and eating?

"Absolutely. When you start treating food as a reward, it can become negative very quickly. You don't want to turn it into a bad thing. If you associate negative thoughts with food, it triggers stress. This in turn slows your metabolism down."

Where do you gather your greatest pleasure?
"In my almost daily movement practice of being active and of course, Sicily. Sicily is a place that holds so much for me. The way of life there speaks to me. That sun and that water is medicine. You have to just lean into life there, let it just happen--it's all pleasure."

One more time...it's all pleasure. Let's all take a page from this way of thinking and go find our own little moments of delight.


A cleaned up version of fudge, sign me up! This recipe is a Sarah original and has been featured on her good friend's website, www.valleybrinkroad.com. Be warned; you won't be able to stop eating these!

Alexis Field

♥️Find Your Little Friday ♥️

Balanced living might just be one of the ultimate Rubik’s Cube puzzles to solve in life. Impossible to maintain, let alone achieve. How do I find balance? Yoga, meditation, reading or even walking have been activities that keep me feeling good outside of my career in food and beauty. I also find that people are a little intimidated by the idea of bringing new things into their lives, especially things that have been deemed a little out of the ordinary.

My featured individual this week is someone whose whole approach to their life has transformed over the past several years. Talk about a journey, there are snippets to take with you from this conversation to encourage your own balance or awareness.  Enjoy this read and be warned, you may experience extreme pleasure if it’s accompanied with sipping hot peppermint tea of a glass of vino tinto!

My long time friend Alexis has been on her own course of spiritual awakening and maintaining. Meditation is something she has been practicing for quite some time and she recently upped her yoga game. She received a teacher certification at the Kripalu School of Yoga this past summer in the Berkshires of Massachusetts and it has transformed her entire practice and way of life. Her compassionate heart is her driving force and she is that go-to person for what some would say is radical thinking. I find it refreshingly full of sincere honesty and I hope you find some ease in her encouragement of subtle changes.

Coming off of an epic post-holiday that includes travel can leave you feeling a little out of sorts, and in this conversation is Alexis speaking from recent experience. She trekked across most of Spain, starting at the Christmas holiday and well into the new year. One of the first things out of her mouth when we spoke was, “I am really excited to get back to vegan food and into my routine. It’s wonderful to be away and fully immerse yourself in your travels and the culture of wherever you’re visiting. That being said, it’s nice to be back in the comfort of your own home. I’m most excited about my walk to work that I get to take everyday. It’s along the UES of Central Park and I get to watch the foliage change day to day.”

First things first, what do you enjoy about being vegan or why did you choose to become vegan?

“I really care about the environment and leaving less of a carbon foot print. Having a vegan lifestyle is the optimal way for me to live. I do enjoy consuming things that came from animals from time to time. My rule is that it has to be something special though, not just a burger from a place where they’re cranked out.”

Meditation is something you have been practicing for a long time, how would you describe it or your own specific practice?

“Meditation is a playground for my mind. A place where—or more like a gas station where I go to refuel. I gain energy and perspective by taking a break from the constant chatter. A lot of people think of mediation as a place where you try to steady and not let things in, but for me it is about letting stuff happen. When I let things happen or allow my thoughts to really come in, I begin to release stress. I started off by saying it is like a playground setting because I want my thoughts to run around like a high energy kid. I want the thoughts racing until they’ve exhausted themselves, then the deep breath comes in for me. This might seem a little too forward but I’ve said it before-meditation it a lot like sex, it’s different every time.”

What would you tell someone who was struggling with their meditation practice or nervous to start one?

“20 seconds. Start small and grow your practice. Everybody deserves to take a little time for themselves. Allow yourself to enjoy the quiet, it calms your life for a more fulfilled life.”

Do you feel like yoga and meditation inform each other?

“Absolutely. Yoga is a moving meditation from where I have learned to live a better life, it’s about surrendering and acceptance. It’s not about getting a tight butt, but that can be a great by-product of your practice. When you truly surrender, you find growth and expansion. So much of my practice is about going to the beginning of my edge. Sitting in my discomfort and discovering what opens up for and with me-finding acceptance.”

What is the one bit of advice or guidance you would like share to help encourage others?

“Try and find a moment each day to take one really deep and good breath, that’s sometimes all you really need.”

Finding the time to reconnect with yourself doesn’t have to be such an intimidating process. 20 seconds or one deep breath is such a great and attainable place to start. Enjoy finding the time for reconnection to yourself and finding your own little moments of delight #FindYourLittleFriday ♥️

Ms. Lizzie “J” Hanes

 ♥️Find Your Little Friday♥️

I’m truly looking forward to this new year. For the month of January, I personally like to take a lot of stock in myself. Where I’m at, what I’m happy with and what I’m looking to change. I think it’s important to set intentions and have an overall reconnection with yourself. I have also loved self-care since I was a little girl. I used to beg my mom for “masques” in the grocery store, sneak moisturizers down the conveyor belt at checkout and have quite a lot of explaining to do when we would unpack groceries at home. My interest in beauty goes beyond skin deep, it’s all about how you feel on the inside.

I am going to feature someone in the business of self-care each Friday for the month of January to help inspire a little you time. I also hope this reminds people that you got to put the work in, but it doesn’t have to be big or hard. Please enjoy our wonderful discussion with Ms. Lizzie-it’s a good reminder of small things having a big impact.

Ebbs & Flows with Esthetician Lizzie “J” Hanes

Lizzie is wise beyond her years. Her general way of living is thoughtful, thorough and full of her charming Southern upbringing. She makes you feel like you’re coming home when you are in her presence.

“A lot of what you eat can manifest on your skin, but there are a lot of factors that can contribute to your complexion.  When I’m super stressed and under pressure, what I eat matters more. It helps keep me balanced when I make the time to be more regimented. Something I have always talked about with my sister is that when I’m not able to cook for myself I start to feel crazed.  3 meals a day of takeout is not ideal for me. Cooking is ultimately doing something nice for yourself and your body. It instantly brings me a feeling of sanity. That being said, if I’m on vacation and I can be more relaxed I won’t hold back and live a bit more indulgently.”

When did you realize you wanted to have a career in skincare?

“I have always been into skincare because of my two older sisters. I grew up watching them struggle with their complexions and my mom really helped them cultivate a skincare regime. So, by her efforts and their struggles I learned. I didn’t truly think of it as a career until a job at a midwifery school fell thru. I had to re-examine what I was going to do for work. I got a job at a beautiful clothing store in Charlotte, North Carolina. While working there I started to realize how beautiful our customer’s skin looked. It sparked my curiosity and I did my research. I knew I wanted to be in New York City and ultimately I picked Aveda as my school. Their approach and practices spoke to me.”

After completing school, Lizzie landed a job at one of the newest and most exciting brands in beauty, Glossier.

“My mom asked me where I wanted to work before I moved and she thought someplace like L’Oréal. I told her I wanted something more intimate, Glossier. It was small enough at that time, making it the ideal fit. I interviewed for a couple of months and finally got a job.”

What do you think is the biggest/best takeaway from your time at Glossier?

“I do think that the products they launch are super thoughtful and community built. Their set-up is simple, educate yourself to inform what your skin needs.”

Lizzie traveled to Paris this past fall to learn a facial massage technique that I was lucky enough to experience. The method is called buccal.

“Buccal is a massage technique that allows for internal & external face muscles to be massaged. The way I look at it is that it brings new lift to your face. It removes stagnation. It’s a non-invasive facelift”

I speak from experience and agree this facial massage left me feeling relief from tension I hadn’t focused on. The relief and relaxation I felt (and am still feeling) close to a week later is oh so special and worth it.

What would say is your most prized piece of beauty advice?

“Universal Law-less is more. Knowledge is power so take the initiative to learn about your skin. A great esthetician can only help so much, it’s really up to your overall day to day maintenance. Taking care of yourself is an incredible investment. From eating well, working out to getting facials and massage, it all has incredible benefits.”

Whether it’s a new year, new you- or just taking the time for yourself for more awareness in general, I hope you go out and find your own little moments of delight. #FindYourLittleFriday ♥️

Recipe for Vitamin C Yummy Warming Soup

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Ingredients-

1 cup of peeled and chopped butternut squash

1 cup of peeled and chopped sweet potato

1 cup of peeled and chopped carrot

1 diced yellow onion

2 cloves of minced garlic

½ cup of red lentils

4 cups of vegetable or chicken stock

Toss the squash, potato and carrots in a tablespoon of olive oil, a teaspoon of salt and a ½ teaspoon of pepper. Spread out on a parchment lined sheet tray and roast at 375° for 20-30 minutes

While the veggies roast, place a large stockpot over medium heat on the stove. Drizzle a tablespoon of olive oil into the pot and let it heat up for about a minute. Add the onion and garlic to the pot and sauté for about 10-15 minutes. Add the roasted vegetables to the pot, along with the lentils and stock. Bring the mixture to a boil, and then reduce to a simmer. Cook until the lentils have softened-about 20-25 minutes. Immersion blend the mixture or scoop into batches into a blender until smooth. The mixture will be thick and smooth.

Garnish with sage, toasted kale chips or roasted pepitas.

Three Sisters

Three sisters, their mother, one of their nieces/daughters (me) and a recipe for borscht. This recipe has been repeated, rephrased and reinterpreted through each one of us. Every Christmas Eve as a child I dreaded the thought of this dish, I was only in it for the pierogis from that feast. It was oxblood purplish red and represented the blood of Christ. That was literally too much to digest as a child and I was grossed out by the resounding slurping around the table.

I’ve changed, I now look forward to this recipe and evening over so many others over the course of the year. My first attempt at this recipe was a mere three years ago and it quickly became a part of my repertoire from that Christmas Eve on.  While preparing to make it for the first time I called on my mom Laada (Josie), my cioci Ursie (aunt Ursula), my cioci Susie (aunt Susan) for their guidance and tricks they learned from my babci, their mother and my grandma (Olga).  They each gave me their individual input and tips from years of making this soup. 

 Below are the top 3 pieces of advice each of them gave to me on that fateful first attempt, with my real life reaction/response following.

From Cioci Susie-The eldest and most revered in the kitchen for her skills. To me, she sounds like she is singing when she speaks and she knows how to make everything---I mean everything! My times with her in the kitchen are full of laughs, isms and a little sass.

“If you really want to make it special and full of flavor you have to go to the butcher and ask for the bones from the beef to make it the most flavorful.”

My response? Better Than Bouillon Beef, this makes my life and borscht the stuff of legend….I still do this step every time and have never looked back-a riff if you please.

From Cioci Ursie-The middle sister with the most practical nature and lots of cultivated skill in the kitchen. She cuts to chase and gives it to you straight. I truly learned from her that you could be a great cook with the simplest techniques and ingredients.  

“Whatever you do, don’t let the borscht turn into a brown color and make sure that it stays clear. The skins need to be clean, keep an eye on them while they boil and flavor the water. Babci was known to throw out the entire batch if it wasn’t a true beautiful color.”

30 minutes into my making my first batch-Oh Shit! It’s not really any color! What the fuc* do I do? I think quickly and call my local juice spot and ask for a small order of pure beet juice to be delivered, crisis averted. The color is now the perfect shade of creepy blood comparison.

From Josie, my mama-The youngest sister who would define herself as a well-taught novice but to me she turned great before I knew her beginnings in the kitchen.

“It doesn’t really matter what you’re making if your attitude is wrong. Christmas Eve is all about how you behave, however you act will follow you all year long.”

Well great, I’ve already lied by using bouillon and cursed so much clarifying the borscht that there isn’t enough soap in my kitchen to cleanse my mouth.  I guess more of this behavior for the next 364 days—until I get a rematch.

This is very personal and special for me. My grandmother never got to teach me her borscht directly or get to try mine. I find comfort in the ritual and keeping traditions alive, so I know on some level she and her daughters are proud.

Here is my mother’s recipe, direct from text-

Go find your own little moments of delight and a Merry Christmas if that’s your tradition.

#FindYourLittleFriday